These are our Life Expectations Versus Reality
Life expectations are usually far away from what we get in our life reality. In this article, I'll share with you these life expectations
We all live in this life expecting the best out of it. Our expectations make us believe that we can acquire anything we want so easily, but the in reality everything is so tough to keep a hand on.
I know you hope for the better tomorrow. The more hard work and passion you put in your work, study, family or any other things that concerns you in your life. It is very true indeed. You only expect something better from a place where you focused your energy on. Laziness won't take you anywhere, since you want a better life then you will have to work for it.
Everyone expects something great from his or her effort. This is usually about being optimistic. Having positive feelings towards anything that you work for. I can say that this is the best attitude anyone should instill in his or her trait. This is the only thing that keeps us hoping for something better, expecting something best, and it also keeps us going forward.
You expect to find the work of your choice after you are done with your studies. You hope that everything you wanted will be achieved. You work so smart and boom! You pass your exams. The only thing left for you is the search for a job. Few months out of school now. You make yourself committed to moving here and there working on every paper you have. Writing CVs, finding a certificate of good conduct and so many documents that are required for to get employed.
You commence in to the searching for a work. Weeks and months passes by. You are still on the move from this company to that company. You drop your documents and hoping to be called back for the interview. Successfully, you are called for the interview. You have full hopes. You know that after the interview is done you will be called back for the work. Months go back no any single text, call or email from the company which you did the interview.
You expected things to be easier, but that is not the way it turned out to be. In reality things are a bit tougher than you expected. You work yourself out harder but the turn of events takes place so slowly. This is now the reality of life. Nothing takes a quick turn.
Since you have now acquired the first work you hope for you expect to solve all your financial problems and your family's too. You hope that everything in life will be so great. You are so happy and excited. You get your first salary. You have so many things to do. You want to buy yourself a new smartphone, households since you want to start living in your own rented property, you have to pay rent for the time being, you want to surprise your mom.
As you receive your first salary you realize that the amount of salary you receive isn't enough to cover all your needs. You also realize that the more you grow up financially the more needs arises. You become more stressed as there is a need to cover more of your expenses, yet the salary is less. The expectations you had about your salary to cover all your expenses it has now turned out to be opposite. The reality of the live handling of your salary is quite different from what you expected.
You expect to find happiness and smooth move of events in your life after getting the love of your life. You have a work, you have your own house now. Life have been so far good for you. It's the time now to take things forward. You want to start living like other people do. You had a girlfriend or a boyfriend whom you have been so much in love with. Furthermore, you promised to marry him or her.
You now see the fortune of life. Things are much brighter. You decide to marry her or him. The life together in the first few months seems so amazing. You visit different places together, you spend every single day together, every decision pertaining to your lives you both get involve in it. Life is pretty good.
As time goes by differences starts to appear. He or she is not on the same decision you want to make. Attention decreases between the two of you. You prefer spending some times alone to figure out what wrong is going on in your marriage. No one is open to one another as you used to me earlier in your marriage. Everyone has his or her own secret. You feel like you are diverted from one another. This is due to work stresses that you work daily trying to solve. You get home you are damn tired. Sometimes you are off moods. Things go in such a way for a while and you guys get into a fight.
The marriage is broken. Parents come in between to reconcile. You get back together, but things are not exactly the way you expected to be. The reality is that in marriage there is always challenges of every kind. Handling your daily activities and keep your marriage into the correct path seems to be such a work! You learn that you and your partner have so many differences you never knew about each other. That is the reality of life, very different from your expectations.
You work things out in your life. You get your marriage into line. Furthermore, you are now happier. Everything is cool, so dope! Your wife gets pregnant.
You expect to have smart, healthy and bright kids. You keep on kissing your wife's womb. Furthermore, you take part in everything so that your wife delivers a baby successfully. Months fly away. Your wife give birth successfully. Your kid looks great. A Few weeks later the kid get sick. You spend sleepless nights. Work now is left a side as you are so much concerned of your kid's health.
The child gets better. You admit him into school. He or she messes up. She or he does not along with other kids so well. She or he is either too passive or active. His or her teacher calls you to tell you the issue of your kid and his or her progress in school. It is not that pleasing. You hug him or her and tell him or her that everything will be fine but deep down you know things won't turn out to be that easy for him or her.
You expect to grow old and live happily - stare at the stars at night, morning staring at the sunrise and evening watching the sunset. You imagine yourself to sit with your grandchildren and tell them how the world is a cruel place to live. You have so many expectations that are all positive. The reality turns to be otherwise. Things don't turn on your hand though. Everything in reality turns to be so different.
Your children are now all grown up and are very busy individuals. They are so committed to their own course. They find so little time to spend with you. The only thing you get from them is the gifts they send to you, the phones calls they make once a week, their children in your house to keep you company. A month does not end you are called to solve a case between your children and their husbands or wives. You fail to give the right decision as your children are on the wrong path, and you are afraid to say so. You don't want to hurt them. You give out a bias decision. This haunts you for the rest of your life.
You now get to find out that it is so stressful to be an elder. Everything is put on your shoulders. Everyone expects you to give them a right way to move their lives towards. Some of your kids are so broke. You have to use your money in a bank account to make them stable. This is because you do not want them to suffer as you did. You try your best to keep their lives better and safe. You get exhausted. You die with so many things undone in your old age.
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